Cleaning, cleaning, cleaning. I believe that for really huge majority of families it is really, probably, an eternal topic of quarrels. Cleaning, cleaning, cleaning. I think we, women, should probably apologise to men that we are so much obsessed with cleaning. I believe it is totally normal and natural that every woman wants to have her household, her nest to be perfect, flawless really. To be able to feel there very comfortably, relaxed and with everything done. I think that is tightly connected. I am nervous and I just can't relax as I see how my household looks. Of course, that it can't be 100% perfect.
I believe that each of us should decide which rooms are more important than others, yeah. I mean, for example, for me the most important is probably the bathroom because I believe it should be hygienically clean and then it is my bedroom because there I sleep with my twins so for them I believe it has to be clean. But what I care the least about is definitely the kitchen. Of course, I put all things in the washing-up machine but still I don't have time to really clean the kitchen unit and it is problem and it is very often messy. I dislike it. So for me it is very funny when my mum or my mother-in-law because they definitely prefer the kitchen being clean, yeah. As I told I believe everybody has different priorities. But with children everything is different, all life definitely... but also the cleaning and cleaning habits. On one hand, you need to clean much more everything, on the other hand, you have really less time and so it's really difficult to still accomplish everything so perfectly and satisfyingly as you did before, yeah. So that's really hard task and, of course, on the other hand, from my point of view, children should be happy and not the household clean. I believe, of course, children are more important so I am really trying, really trying hard to relax and playing with the kids and not only cleaning because then the children can suffer. Or they suffer through you – you are nervous that you don't have time to do everything so it is really important to have somebody to help you, yeah, it is really hard to do everything by yourself and with kids behind your backs.
It's not long I have seen a programme and there they discussed this topic – the cleaning. There was a freshly married couple and they had their first real quarrels because the woman wanted to have everything clean as before and her husband and his son were doing a lot of mess inside and they were not willing to assist and to change their habits and they were even talking about some radical solutions of these quarrels – I am not sure what they meant but if they meant divorce just because of cleaning it is horrible. We all live in the household and I suppose that everybody should help with probably everything. Everybody wants to eat, wants to sleep, wants to wear clean clothes so we should help each other. That's my opinion.